Southern California Wildfire: A Young Boy’s Journey of Loss and Resilience
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The devastating Eaton Fire that swept through Altadena on January 7 left an entire community grappling with loss and destruction. Among those affected was 11-year-old Ceiba Phillips, whose life changed dramatically after witnessing the aftermath of the wildfire.
A Community in Ruins
When Ceiba returned to his neighborhood a month after the fire, the reality was heartbreaking. His best friend’s house, his school, and his favorite diner, Fox’s, were all gone. Although his own home remained standing, his grandparents’ small house was reduced to ashes.
“There’s no word for it,” Ceiba said. “It’s sad, heavy, and makes me angry. Why did this have to happen?”
Coping with the Aftermath
The Eaton Fire displaced hundreds of families, leaving children like Ceiba to navigate the emotional toll of losing their homes and familiar places. Experts emphasize the importance of reestablishing routines to help children heal, staying connected with friends, and encouraging open conversations about emotions.
To support the community, early childhood educator Chiara Angelicola organized a “Kids Town Hall” event, providing art and therapy activities to help children process their feelings. Ceiba’s 4-year-old sister, Quoia, attended the event with their mother, Alyson Granaderos.
“A lot of kids had so much to say,” Angelicola said. “Some of it was even hard for the adults to hear, but it’s important to let kids know their feelings won’t hurt them.”
Local therapists and nonprofits have also stepped in, offering free mental health support for fire victims.
The Last Normal Day
Though Ceiba’s house survived, it suffered significant smoke damage. When his family returned to collect their belongings, they wore masks and protective gear.
“I don’t care that my house is still standing,” Ceiba said. “I’d rather have all of Altadena back.”
He vividly remembers his last normal day. After school let out early due to strong winds, he spent the afternoon playing on a trampoline and drawing comics with his best friend. That evening, his grandmother’s text warning of a nearby fire changed everything.
“When I looked out the window, the mountainside was burning,” Ceiba recalled. “I prayed for my house and my family. But my mom told me to get up and pack my things.”
Read Also: Tough Talks: Parents Guide Kids Through Fire Aftermath
Finding a New Routine
Now living in Pasadena and attending a new school, Ceiba is slowly adjusting. He’s learning the saxophone and working on a project about Michigan, his mother’s home state. Despite the changes, conversations with his friends often center around the fire’s aftermath.
“We talk about insurance and whose house is still standing,” he said.
Still, Ceiba remains hopeful.
“I know Altadena,” he said. “We will stick together.”
Signs of Resilience
Granaderos wanted her children to see their home and understand the full impact of the disaster.
“There is beauty in the world, but also sadness and destruction,” she said.
For 4-year-old Quoia, the loss hit hard when they drove past the ruins of The Bunny Museum, one of her favorite places. Seeing his sister cry, Ceiba broke down too.
But amid the devastation, there was a symbol of hope. Years ago, Granaderos planted a Sequoia sapling in their backyard. After the fire, the tree was still standing.
“My children are named after trees,” she said. “Ceiba, the tree of life, and Quoia, the resilient Sequoia. Just like the trees, we will endure.”
A Community in Ruins
When Ceiba returned to his neighborhood a month after the fire, the reality was heartbreaking. His best friend’s house, his school, and his favorite diner, Fox’s, were all gone. Although his own home remained standing, his grandparents’ small house was reduced to ashes.
“There’s no word for it,” Ceiba said. “It’s sad, heavy, and makes me angry. Why did this have to happen?”
Coping with the Aftermath
The Eaton Fire displaced hundreds of families, leaving children like Ceiba to navigate the emotional toll of losing their homes and familiar places. Experts emphasize the importance of reestablishing routines to help children heal, staying connected with friends, and encouraging open conversations about emotions.
To support the community, early childhood educator Chiara Angelicola organized a “Kids Town Hall” event, providing art and therapy activities to help children process their feelings. Ceiba’s 4-year-old sister, Quoia, attended the event with their mother, Alyson Granaderos.
“A lot of kids had so much to say,” Angelicola said. “Some of it was even hard for the adults to hear, but it’s important to let kids know their feelings won’t hurt them.”
Local therapists and nonprofits have also stepped in, offering free mental health support for fire victims.
The Last Normal Day
Though Ceiba’s house survived, it suffered significant smoke damage. When his family returned to collect their belongings, they wore masks and protective gear.
“I don’t care that my house is still standing,” Ceiba said. “I’d rather have all of Altadena back.”
He vividly remembers his last normal day. After school let out early due to strong winds, he spent the afternoon playing on a trampoline and drawing comics with his best friend. That evening, his grandmother’s text warning of a nearby fire changed everything.
“When I looked out the window, the mountainside was burning,” Ceiba recalled. “I prayed for my house and my family. But my mom told me to get up and pack my things.”
Read Also: Tough Talks: Parents Guide Kids Through Fire Aftermath
Finding a New Routine
Now living in Pasadena and attending a new school, Ceiba is slowly adjusting. He’s learning the saxophone and working on a project about Michigan, his mother’s home state. Despite the changes, conversations with his friends often center around the fire’s aftermath.
“We talk about insurance and whose house is still standing,” he said.
Still, Ceiba remains hopeful.
“I know Altadena,” he said. “We will stick together.”
Signs of Resilience
Granaderos wanted her children to see their home and understand the full impact of the disaster.
“There is beauty in the world, but also sadness and destruction,” she said.
For 4-year-old Quoia, the loss hit hard when they drove past the ruins of The Bunny Museum, one of her favorite places. Seeing his sister cry, Ceiba broke down too.
But amid the devastation, there was a symbol of hope. Years ago, Granaderos planted a Sequoia sapling in their backyard. After the fire, the tree was still standing.
“My children are named after trees,” she said. “Ceiba, the tree of life, and Quoia, the resilient Sequoia. Just like the trees, we will endure.”
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